Comments on: Jeffrey J. Marsalis Accused of Raping on-line Dates http://missingexploited.com/2006/11/04/jeffrey-j-marsalis-accused-of-raping-on-line-dates/ www.missingexploited.com Thu, 15 Dec 2011 20:36:08 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3 By: Angel (again..lol) http://missingexploited.com/2006/11/04/jeffrey-j-marsalis-accused-of-raping-on-line-dates/#comment-35616 Angel (again..lol) Tue, 10 Apr 2007 18:00:51 +0000 http://missingexploited.com/2006/11/04/jeffrey-j-marsalis-accused-of-raping-on-line-dates/#comment-35616 I do want to add that I question the rape part of this. I wouldn't think him to have much problems getting women to do whatever he wanted them to without drugs. Hmm...the more I think about it...the more I see it as possibly them being upset that he is in fact a "player", liar, manipulater, tease, etc. and got their feelings hurt...maybe even drank too much and took offense to him thinking their "yes" in their drunken stupor meant "no". I don't know. I know he lies...I know he is smooth...I know he is good looking......only God knows the real truth, eh? I do want to add that I question the rape part of this. I wouldn’t think him to have much problems getting women to do whatever he wanted them to without drugs.
Hmm…the more I think about it…the more I see it as possibly them being upset that he is in fact a “player”, liar, manipulater, tease, etc. and got their feelings hurt…maybe even drank too much and took offense to him thinking their “yes” in their drunken stupor meant “no”.
I don’t know.
I know he lies…I know he is smooth…I know he is good looking……only God knows the real truth, eh?

]]> By: Angel http://missingexploited.com/2006/11/04/jeffrey-j-marsalis-accused-of-raping-on-line-dates/#comment-35614 Angel Tue, 10 Apr 2007 17:54:00 +0000 http://missingexploited.com/2006/11/04/jeffrey-j-marsalis-accused-of-raping-on-line-dates/#comment-35614 I think Kelly has been fooled. While I will admit doing a lot of flirting with him, I would never defend him in court. I have seen his smooth talk and heard the stories and lies. He always had some story to tell. I don't think you are doing anything wrong, Kelly. I just feel you have been manipulated. There is no crime in that. And yes, I went to High School is Washington State at Kentridge High...class of 1992. Jeff might even remember me for all I know...LOL. I think Kelly has been fooled. While I will admit doing a lot of flirting with him, I would never defend him in court. I have seen his smooth talk and heard the stories and lies. He always had some story to tell.

I don’t think you are doing anything wrong, Kelly. I just feel you have been manipulated. There is no crime in that.

And yes, I went to High School is Washington State at Kentridge High…class of 1992. Jeff might even remember me for all I know…LOL.

]]> By: Kelly http://missingexploited.com/2006/11/04/jeffrey-j-marsalis-accused-of-raping-on-line-dates/#comment-28150 Kelly Wed, 28 Feb 2007 13:20:15 +0000 http://missingexploited.com/2006/11/04/jeffrey-j-marsalis-accused-of-raping-on-line-dates/#comment-28150 Well then Jane, I guess that doesnt make you a very good friend. I would stand by ANY of my friends, guilty or innocent because that's what I feel is the right thing to do. Until he does something to hurt me, which he never has and likely never will, I will stand by Jeff 100% and not regret a moment of it. As I said before, I respect the opinions of others, but I dont have to agree with them, as you very clearly do not agree with my opinion. What you would do with your life and the decision you would make are your own and mine are my own as well. In all honesty, when I first saw his face on the news, I let myself think for a moment that he had done such horrible things...but as the months have gone on, the more I hear (and not just from him), the less sense it makes that he did any of it. I personally dont believe he did any of the things he's accused of doing and I will stand behind that position through the following months and the trial. I can see you obviously have a lot of anger and hostility toward Jeff or maybe just the situation in general, and I certainly dont appreciate you calling me sad, delusional and naive. There are more than enough people on his side of this that would think the same of you and all the rest of his accusers. Like I said, your life is your own. We all have to live with the choices we make and my choice is to support Jeff. That is the only choice that I am happy with and the only one to me that feels right. Now granted...he is a bit of a narcissictic ass at times, I wont deny that, and neither does he...but knowing Jeff, I just cant see any side of him that would rape and traumatize anyone. He just doesnt have it in him. Think what you want to think of me, seems I'm being crucified right along with him on this... Well then Jane, I guess that doesnt make you a very good friend. I would stand by ANY of my friends, guilty or innocent because that’s what I feel is the right thing to do. Until he does something to hurt me, which he never has and likely never will, I will stand by Jeff 100% and not regret a moment of it. As I said before, I respect the opinions of others, but I dont have to agree with them, as you very clearly do not agree with my opinion. What you would do with your life and the decision you would make are your own and mine are my own as well. In all honesty, when I first saw his face on the news, I let myself think for a moment that he had done such horrible things…but as the months have gone on, the more I hear (and not just from him), the less sense it makes that he did any of it. I personally dont believe he did any of the things he’s accused of doing and I will stand behind that position through the following months and the trial. I can see you obviously have a lot of anger and hostility toward Jeff or maybe just the situation in general, and I certainly dont appreciate you calling me sad, delusional and naive. There are more than enough people on his side of this that would think the same of you and all the rest of his accusers. Like I said, your life is your own. We all have to live with the choices we make and my choice is to support Jeff. That is the only choice that I am happy with and the only one to me that feels right. Now granted…he is a bit of a narcissictic ass at times, I wont deny that, and neither does he…but knowing Jeff, I just cant see any side of him that would rape and traumatize anyone. He just doesnt have it in him. Think what you want to think of me, seems I’m being crucified right along with him on this…

]]> By: jane http://missingexploited.com/2006/11/04/jeffrey-j-marsalis-accused-of-raping-on-line-dates/#comment-27913 jane Mon, 26 Feb 2007 23:59:18 +0000 http://missingexploited.com/2006/11/04/jeffrey-j-marsalis-accused-of-raping-on-line-dates/#comment-27913 Kelly, yes, in a heartbeat, I would refuse to stand by the side of any person, friend or not, who hurts people in this manner. You would have to be delusional to believe that so many women with so much to lose would face the pain and embarrassment to stand up in court and recount such similar experiences if your "friend" were innocent. I think you are sad and naive to actually believe this man is your friend. A person like that only cares about himself. He doesn't care about you. So why on earth would you post messages to women who have been violated in such a manner on behalf of a man whose narcissim makes him the equivalent of a psychopath? If you have any respect for others, and for yourself, you should let it go. Any overly dramatic pleas of "friendship" are sad and low in face of the victim's trauma. Kelly, yes, in a heartbeat, I would refuse to stand by the side of any person, friend or not, who hurts people in this manner. You would have to be delusional to believe that so many women with so much to lose would face the pain and embarrassment to stand up in court and recount such similar experiences if your “friend” were innocent. I think you are sad and naive to actually believe this man is your friend. A person like that only cares about himself. He doesn’t care about you. So why on earth would you post messages to women who have been violated in such a manner on behalf of a man whose narcissim makes him the equivalent of a psychopath? If you have any respect for others, and for yourself, you should let it go. Any overly dramatic pleas of “friendship” are sad and low in face of the victim’s trauma.

]]> By: alex http://missingexploited.com/2006/11/04/jeffrey-j-marsalis-accused-of-raping-on-line-dates/#comment-27010 alex Tue, 20 Feb 2007 23:40:37 +0000 http://missingexploited.com/2006/11/04/jeffrey-j-marsalis-accused-of-raping-on-line-dates/#comment-27010 I knew someone by the name Jeffrey Jevne Marsalis in Kent, WA. Jevne was his mother's maiden name. Her name was Darlene Jevne. She started the Jevne Academy for kids with special needs and was nailed for embezzling over $300,000 from the school in the 1990s. Is this the same Jeffrey J. Marsalis? I knew someone by the name Jeffrey Jevne Marsalis in Kent, WA. Jevne was his mother’s maiden name. Her name was Darlene Jevne. She started the Jevne Academy for kids with special needs and was nailed for embezzling over $300,000 from the school in the 1990s. Is this the same Jeffrey J. Marsalis?

]]> By: Terri http://missingexploited.com/2006/11/04/jeffrey-j-marsalis-accused-of-raping-on-line-dates/#comment-20056 Terri Sun, 07 Jan 2007 22:10:00 +0000 http://missingexploited.com/2006/11/04/jeffrey-j-marsalis-accused-of-raping-on-line-dates/#comment-20056 Question to Angel. When you were in High School with this guy, did he live in Washington state or Montana? There is someone from these areas with the same name and I am trying to determine if it is the same fella. Question to Angel. When you were in High School with this guy, did he live in Washington state or Montana? There is someone from these areas with the same name and I am trying to determine if it is the same fella.

]]> By: Kelly http://missingexploited.com/2006/11/04/jeffrey-j-marsalis-accused-of-raping-on-line-dates/#comment-17162 Kelly Mon, 04 Dec 2006 16:28:53 +0000 http://missingexploited.com/2006/11/04/jeffrey-j-marsalis-accused-of-raping-on-line-dates/#comment-17162 Jamie, I understand how you feel, believe me. When I was 20 the same thing happened to me, by a state trooper who I now have potential to see on occasion when I'm working, but who the hell would believe a 20 year old kid versus a state trooper? So, I never reported it either, not because I was ashamed or anything but I didnt want to "go into battle" so to speak with the state police. Date rape is nothing more than he said she said and short of being raped with eye witnesses standing by it's near impossible to prove. So I just counted myself lucky, and moved on with my life. I sympathize with any woman who has been raped and I'll be the first to stand on their side. And I'm certainly not calling you a liar, I dont know what happened, I wasnt there, but for now I'm going to believe Jeffrey and stand on his side. I just cant see him doing such horrible things. It's a personal conviction that I will live with if I'm wrong. Lets assume for a second that all these things were true...he still didnt do anything to me, to my friends, to anyone I know. I find it hard to "personalize" it in that way. I cant be upset with someone or stand against someone just because others are making horrifying claims about them. If any of us went against our friends, family, children or whomever just because someone else said something bad about them we would have a world full of friendless and lonely people. As far as any lies he may have told, they're just words to me and I can forgive that. People lie, it's not the end of the world. I'm not saying we should all go out and lie about everything, but if that's the only thing he did to me...then I still dont see what I should be so upset about. It may seem selfish and I'm sorry, but I cant make all of my decisions in life based on what other people are saying. I'm not going to go out and call any of you a liar, ultimately, I was not there and only you and Jeffrey know what really happened, but regardless of what did or did not happen, I will be sitting on his side of the courtroom. I will however respect you and the testimony you will be giving along with all those other girls weather or not I agree with it. Everyone is entitled to have their side of the story. And weather he is found guilty or innocent I will still support him because I think everyone needs someone in their corner. Would you just ditch one of your friends if they were in the same position or would you support them because they didnt do anything to hurt you and because they are your friend? This is definately a case with a lot of tension and emotion and there will always be two very differing sides. Jamie, I understand how you feel, believe me. When I was 20 the same thing happened to me, by a state trooper who I now have potential to see on occasion when I’m working, but who the hell would believe a 20 year old kid versus a state trooper? So, I never reported it either, not because I was ashamed or anything but I didnt want to “go into battle” so to speak with the state police. Date rape is nothing more than he said she said and short of being raped with eye witnesses standing by it’s near impossible to prove. So I just counted myself lucky, and moved on with my life. I sympathize with any woman who has been raped and I’ll be the first to stand on their side. And I’m certainly not calling you a liar, I dont know what happened, I wasnt there, but for now I’m going to believe Jeffrey and stand on his side. I just cant see him doing such horrible things. It’s a personal conviction that I will live with if I’m wrong. Lets assume for a second that all these things were true…he still didnt do anything to me, to my friends, to anyone I know. I find it hard to “personalize” it in that way. I cant be upset with someone or stand against someone just because others are making horrifying claims about them. If any of us went against our friends, family, children or whomever just because someone else said something bad about them we would have a world full of friendless and lonely people. As far as any lies he may have told, they’re just words to me and I can forgive that. People lie, it’s not the end of the world. I’m not saying we should all go out and lie about everything, but if that’s the only thing he did to me…then I still dont see what I should be so upset about. It may seem selfish and I’m sorry, but I cant make all of my decisions in life based on what other people are saying. I’m not going to go out and call any of you a liar, ultimately, I was not there and only you and Jeffrey know what really happened, but regardless of what did or did not happen, I will be sitting on his side of the courtroom. I will however respect you and the testimony you will be giving along with all those other girls weather or not I agree with it. Everyone is entitled to have their side of the story. And weather he is found guilty or innocent I will still support him because I think everyone needs someone in their corner. Would you just ditch one of your friends if they were in the same position or would you support them because they didnt do anything to hurt you and because they are your friend? This is definately a case with a lot of tension and emotion and there will always be two very differing sides.

]]> By: jamie http://missingexploited.com/2006/11/04/jeffrey-j-marsalis-accused-of-raping-on-line-dates/#comment-16598 jamie Wed, 29 Nov 2006 02:45:54 +0000 http://missingexploited.com/2006/11/04/jeffrey-j-marsalis-accused-of-raping-on-line-dates/#comment-16598 I am really surprised by Kelly's comment. If I were you I would just consider yourself lucky that you weren't one of the many women he raped. He lied to me, told me he was a doctor, served time on the military, and was accepted to NASA training but had to leave due to a knee injury. He produced ID badges to support his identity. He may be your friend, and that's none of my business. I just know that never in my life have I had one draft beer, become violently ill, and couldn't wake up until late the next afternoon. Trust me, the flashes of memory that I have from my 'date' with Jeffrey are nothing that I would wish on my worst enemy. I will see you in the courtroom, and if you still have the same opinion after hearing the girls' stories, I will be surprised. I am really surprised by Kelly’s comment. If I were you I would just consider yourself lucky that you weren’t one of the many women he raped. He lied to me, told me he was a doctor, served time on the military, and was accepted to NASA training but had to leave due to a knee injury. He produced ID badges to support his identity. He may be your friend, and that’s none of my business. I just know that never in my life have I had one draft beer, become violently ill, and couldn’t wake up until late the next afternoon. Trust me, the flashes of memory that I have from my ‘date’ with Jeffrey are nothing that I would wish on my worst enemy. I will see you in the courtroom, and if you still have the same opinion after hearing the girls’ stories, I will be surprised.

]]> By: anonymous http://missingexploited.com/2006/11/04/jeffrey-j-marsalis-accused-of-raping-on-line-dates/#comment-16553 anonymous Tue, 28 Nov 2006 16:27:50 +0000 http://missingexploited.com/2006/11/04/jeffrey-j-marsalis-accused-of-raping-on-line-dates/#comment-16553 I almost dated Jeffrey from Match.com. He said he was a pediatric surgeon @ Hahneman. I tried to do searches for him online, but he never came up; I thought because he said he was only a resident that he wouldn't be listed with the other doctors. I cancelled our date the day it was supposed to happen because I had a funny feeling. Boy, am I glad now. I could have easily been one of those girls. There seems to be countless woman on here that knew of him. I would urge them to contact the proper authorities. I called the DA myself and I hope it helps put him behind bars once and for all. He's raped at least 10 woman and his attorneys say the women are just mad that he lied about his identity and that he turned them down. I'm so sick of rapists getting aquitted because WE were afraid to contact the police. When you get raped you feel ashamed and dirty and that it was your fault. I don't blame these women for not coming forward. I wouldn't have. And to Patti who is calling online dating desperate. When you move to a new area it's sometimes the only way to meet new people. That was my case and as it seems, he picked woman like myself, that wouldn't know any mutual people with him. We are all attractive, intelligent women who were just looking to meet someone new after exhausting the bar scene. Thankfully now I'm happlily engaged. After I cancelled the date with Jeff, I met my fiance. I'd never meet anyone online that didn't have a background check. If Match.com did this then it would have avoided the subsequent women from going through this. Jeff deserves to be behind bars!!! I almost dated Jeffrey from Match.com. He said he was a pediatric surgeon @ Hahneman. I tried to do searches for him online, but he never came up; I thought because he said he was only a resident that he wouldn’t be listed with the other doctors. I cancelled our date the day it was supposed to happen because I had a funny feeling. Boy, am I glad now. I could have easily been one of those girls. There seems to be countless woman on here that knew of him. I would urge them to contact the proper authorities. I called the DA myself and I hope it helps put him behind bars once and for all. He’s raped at least 10 woman and his attorneys say the women are just mad that he lied about his identity and that he turned them down. I’m so sick of rapists getting aquitted because WE were afraid to contact the police. When you get raped you feel ashamed and dirty and that it was your fault. I don’t blame these women for not coming forward. I wouldn’t have. And to Patti who is calling online dating desperate. When you move to a new area it’s sometimes the only way to meet new people. That was my case and as it seems, he picked woman like myself, that wouldn’t know any mutual people with him. We are all attractive, intelligent women who were just looking to meet someone new after exhausting the bar scene. Thankfully now I’m happlily engaged. After I cancelled the date with Jeff, I met my fiance. I’d never meet anyone online that didn’t have a background check. If Match.com did this then it would have avoided the subsequent women from going through this. Jeff deserves to be behind bars!!!

]]> By: Kelly http://missingexploited.com/2006/11/04/jeffrey-j-marsalis-accused-of-raping-on-line-dates/#comment-15700 Kelly Tue, 21 Nov 2006 00:57:44 +0000 http://missingexploited.com/2006/11/04/jeffrey-j-marsalis-accused-of-raping-on-line-dates/#comment-15700 I dated Jeffrey too...and I believe he didnt do the things he's accused of doing. Yes he's a slick talking charmer who made a few mistakes and lied a bit...but a rapist he is not. I'll be in court too, and I'll be FULLY supporting him. It looks as though I'm the only girl who has encountered him (besides his mom) that will be on his side. I dated Jeffrey too…and I believe he didnt do the things he’s accused of doing. Yes he’s a slick talking charmer who made a few mistakes and lied a bit…but a rapist he is not. I’ll be in court too, and I’ll be FULLY supporting him. It looks as though I’m the only girl who has encountered him (besides his mom) that will be on his side.

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